Let's Take Another Look Here...

So Ed is rumored to be a three timing, cheating, scum of the earth, jerk. The two women who have recently come out to accuse Ed of having sex with them (one of whom, claims Ed slept with her 8 days AFTER his proposal to Jillian) have caused a lot of drama in what last week was a happily ever after for our girl Jillian.

According to one article, Jillian has already gotten the full story on these girls from Ed. Ed told her about the text messaging, the phone calls, etc. Don't forget - Ed made the decision to actually leave the show. He wouldn't have left the show he realized he was head over heels in love at that point. Fast forward to when he comes back, he is in it to win it. I definitely saw a change in him at that point.

Let's also remember that our girl Jillian was doing some pretty crazy things with other men days (even hours and moments) before getting engaged. Let us not forget:

1. She was in a hot tub with Reid, sans clothing, days before getting engaged to Reid.
2. She could not stop making out with Kiptyn the day before she got engaged.
3. She had an overnight date with Kiptyn and who knows what went on there
4. She went into hot tubs with Kiptyn as well
5. Moments before she accepted Ed's proposal, she was freaking out about Reid's proposal. It definitely confused her and she admitted that Reid's feelings on the matter were not "crazy" - that she definitely has a connection with him. If Chris H hadn't talked her through it, I wonder how much longer Jillian would have been confused.

Now let me ask you this: If you were Ed, and your future fiance had done and of 1-5 above within 72 hours of you geting engaged to her, would this perhaps bother you???

Well, so in this situation, Ed is having other relationships with other girls. The only real question then, is did Ed cheat on Jillian after they got engaged? And also - did he lie to Jillian about anything that he had done with these girls while he was professing his love for her?

Personally, I think this whole process is such a crazy journey, that I wouldn't be surprised if they could both just forgive each other and move on. Look at Molly and Jason - he embarrassed and broke her heart in front of millions of people. Not only that - he chose another woman and got engaged to her. The fact that they have lasted this long proves that forgiveness is possible.
The circumstances of this show are like none other.

Here's the article: http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/08/05/2009-08-05_the_bachelorettes_jillian_harris_not_worried_about_cheating_claims_against_fianc.html